I never See Him - Should I Kiss Him?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I have a crush on this guy and he likes me. He goes to a different school so i dont see him to often. I want to go out with him but he is really shy.
Should i ask him out? Also, i want to kiss him, but im not sure if he wants to kiss...how can i tell if the feelings go both ways and how to show that i want him to ask me out?
I think you're making some huge leaps here. You barely talk to this guy so you want to start kissing him? Let's start slowly. First, you don't really talk to him much. So solve that problem first. Flirt heavily with him whenever you DO see him. Then ask him for his email/IM and give him yours. Now up the ante and flirt even more heavily on IM and email to build up that relationship.
Once you have a friendship going, talk about the movies that are coming out. Really talk about how eager you are to see one of them but that you have nobody to go with. I'm sure after the 8th or 9th time you say this he'll get the clue and offer to go with you. After the first time it gets easier and easier to think up things to do together!
As far as kissing, once you are doing things together, give a hug hello and goodbye. That easily then turns into a cheek kiss after the first few hugs ... and on it goes!
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com