He Loves to Flirt but Not Follow Through
Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
How can I get this guy out of my head. We started flirting
with each other several months ago and he called me and came
on really, really strong. We were going to get together but
that never happened. He says he will call me but never does.
I'm obsessed about him. I think about him all the time. I
know he's just leading me on but how do I get him out of my
mind before I go crazy?
Help for the obsessed
In every relationship there is always a doer and a follower. Why are you sitting around waiting for him to call? Does your phone not work? It sounds like in your relationship, YOU are the doer. So do something! Call him up just to say hi. Chat for a while. Drop hints that you really want to see a certain movie but haven't found anyone to go with you. He should get the hint and offer to go! Or say that there's a new restaurant in town that you wanted to go try, if only someone would go with you.
You can't sit back and not take action, and then complain that nothing is happening. Life only goes forward if you turn those wheels!
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com