Flirting at a Dance

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I'm going out with a girl who is 1 year older than me and shes really hot and nice etc. and when we were at a dance she gave me our first kiss but then after she hasnt really been talking to me. I'd like your advice on what to do and why you think she's doing this. Thank you very much. Advice
That's very odd, that she was friendly at the dance but then has been shy. Maybe she's waiting for you to make the next move? Many girls are very shy and get scared when a relationship starts to get serious. So it could be that now that you guys are past the platonic stage that she got nervous.

So make the effort to keep the connection going. The best relationships are about best friendships. You guys were hopefully friends before the kiss, and able to talk about things and have fun together? Then keep that up, and make sure she knows that that connection is what's really important to you - and that the kisses are just extra nice!

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