My Ex Repeatedly Dumped Me

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
i used to go out with this boy but he dumped me. recently i have started going back out with him and my friend has split us up twice now. im not with him because she split us up on friday and he said he can't take it anymore.

people are saying that it was his choice and if he liked me that much he wouldn't of let her get in the way, and appartently he dumped me for his ex anyway, now he likes her.

i really want him back, i can't sleep and im really hurting inside, i don't know what i want, can you help me please Advice
I know it's really tough to be dumped, it's very painful! But it's something that we all go through many times in our lives, it's sort of a learning experience :) You have to learn that life goes on, that things get better and that what you learned from this guy will help you find an even better guy the next time around.

I definitely agree that your ex COULD have chosen to stay with you and instead he was very immature and kept dumping you at random times when he felt like he wanted to try something else. And then he kept you on a string to use you again!! This is NOT the guy for you.

Yes you miss him. Yes you want him back! We all go through those cravings when we break up. It's hard to be alone. You're on the rebound stage right now and I have a LOT of advice on that on my site. So read through the rebound advice and take good care of yourself. I am quite sure that when you are ready for a new love, that you will meet someone FAR better than your ex and be quite happy with your new life.

-- from Jenn
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