She Slept with my Best Friend

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Well i just found out for the 5th time my girlfriend has been cheating on me with my bestfriend, she said it was to get back at me becasue of my anger problems and my ADHD.

She was the first person i slept with and i think about what she has done every day and i rub it in her face to make her mad and to try to make myself feel better but it never works. And i unfortuantly dont know where to go from here Advice
This best friend doesn't sound like much of a friend at all! And your girlfriend is such a liar that not only did she cheat multiple times but she couldn't even take responsibility for her actions. She tried to blame YOU because SHE was a loose woman??? Let's just look at her lie. If she had wanted to hurt you she would have done it and then told you. If she did it and then lied to you by not telling you what she had done, then she's just selfish and disloyal. She did it for her own pleasure, and when she was caught she made up a lie to blame you. At least she should be mature enough to say "I did this". If she can't even take responsibility for her own actions, she's hardly mature enough to date.

What if she had gotten a sexual disease while she was fooling around and then gave it to you? There are SERIOUS health reasons why you are monogamous when you date sexually. She didn't even care. All she thought about was herself.

Of course tormenting someone else doesn't help a relationship! Relationships are about trust and love and caring. This relationship was already damaged and your solution is to damage it even further. You can't date someone while you actively seek to cause them pain. It doesn't work.

I highly recommend that you break up with her and spend some time on your own to get your head clear. This girl has been using you and your best friend isn't a keeper either. Spend time with friends that you can trust and who will help you through this. Once you're over her, I'm sure you will find a girl who is worthy of your love and affection and who will be true to you. Nobody deserves a partner who actively backstabs them like this girl did to you.

-- from Jenn
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