Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
One time my boyfriend and I were about to have sex , He was going to be my first. WE kissed and touched each other. So when it came down to him puttin it in . It would not at all fit. Why did it not fit? Was it because I was too small?
Your body is meant to hold an entire baby in it and that's the way the baby gets out of your body. I really doubt it was too small. It's far more likely that you were nervous and your muscles were tense, and that you were in essence blocking him from getting into you.
I would make sure in future times that you go very slow, get very relaxed and definitely TELL him if you are tense so he can give you a massage or something. You definitely have to communicate whenever you are intimate so you handle situations like this!
Also be sure you ALWAYS use a condom 100% of the time. There is no safe time to have sex. And even if you use a condom there is a risk of pregnancy. So I hope you are both old enough to be prepared for handling the child, if that happens.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com