My Prison Man will Want Sex

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
he man is in prison but he gets out next year, i know for a fact the first thing he will want to do when he get out of jail is have sex but the problem is i am a virgin. i think that he will cheat if i don't be with him but if i do be with him it won't feel right.

so what should ireally do? Advice
You know, lots of men go many years without sex and they don't have to grab a prostitute or push a virgin the moment the urge strikes them! Lots of men are virgins and in their 20s - that means they've NEVER had sex, never mind "been without sex for a while"! Heck, I know some men who waited until they found a woman they were willing to marry, and they were older than 25 when they finally did marry and have sex for the first time. They were patient and the reward was well worth it.

There is NO reason that you should have to give up your virginity or have him run off and sleep around just because he has been without sex for a while.

If this guy loves you, then when he gets out of prison his first aim will be to BE WITH YOU, not some obsession with sex. He will want to hold you, to talk with you, to spend time with you and work daily on your relationship. If he cares more about sex than he does about love, it's time for him to talk to someone about his priorities.

-- from Jenn
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