I Want to Make Him Like Me

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I am not sure how to make this guy like me the way I like him.He's a cowboy (so this might be difficult).I try to dress like everyone else, flirt with him ( I'm a little shy and ask stupid questions), I even hang out with the "popular" crowd.

What does it take????? HELP ME!

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You can NEVER make someone like you. Every human is different and has very specific things that attract them in a person. If you try to "fake it" you are missing the whole point of what a relationship is about. It is about two people who truly are compatible with each other. When he discovers you are faking it - since you can never fake it forever - he will be furious and leave very angrily. The only thing that works in relationships is to be YOURSELF and to present yourself in the very best light you can. It is then completely up to him to accept that as something that appeals to him. If you despise snakes as slimy - but try to pretend you love them because he likes them - it is not going to work. If you actually love snakes and he loves snakes, and you guys talk about snakes all the time, then it *can* work.

-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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