He Left - I Want him Back
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
How can I bring my ex back. He broke up with me today because he said we didn't talk enough. I really really like him still. This bites. I am on Spring Break and it isn't going so well. First, my best friend moved on Friday, and then my boyfriend breaks up with me. Please help me!! Oh yea, now I absolutely hate my life. I wish it was over. Help me to get my boyfriend back, please. Bye.
Life is always full of changes, it is part of what happens as we grow. People move apart, people go off to college, people get married and move away. It's one of those things that happens in life. I know it's sad when a friend moves away - but a lot of the time it means you get to go visit them in new and fun places, and that you two become even closer in a way. There are always the opportunities of going to college together or rooming together after you graduate.
As far as your boyfriend goes, a relationship always needs to involve talking - to be able to discuss issues, problems, troubles. The fact that you two didn't talk - and couldn't even talk about this issue to fix it before you broke up - is pretty telling. If you want to get back together with him, you need to show him you're mature enough to handle discussions and to fix this problem. You can work on that now, as his friend. The best relationships begin with best friendships, with people who can talk freely with each other. You two apparently didn't have that before you began dating. It's time to build that up now.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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You're Not Alone
There'll Be Someone Else
Go On with Life
User Submitted Response from a 13-15 year old Female