He's Dating Someone Else but Flirts with Me
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
please help... I dated my ex for 4 years and we broke up eight months ago.. He is now dating a girl he works with but occasionall he calls me especially when I am seeing someone else. He told me about four months ago that he still loves me and he followed me home one night and also told me he missed me so much.
Some people have commented to me that we will be back in no time but the problem with me is that he is dating that girl since we broke up. He hardly ever brings her around and when he does he does not speak to me in front her.
I can't understand that if he wants me back why he is not really trying. Some of my friends said he admitted he loved me but I just don't know who to believe. please advise
This guy is seeing someone else. If he wanted to be with you he would be. He's choosing to be with her, and to keep you around as a safety net. Don't let yourself be used like that.
Call a break with him, stop letting him string you along. Read all my tips about getting over an ex and move on with your life. You'll find someone else who is just right for you and who actually wants to be with you, vs keeping you around in case of emergency.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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