He's Not Showing his Love
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Hi I'm 14 and I need some advice about what to do. Ok first of all I am dating this guy that's the same age as me. we have been going out for 7 monthes now. Anyway about 2 weeks ago a girl came up to me and told me that my boyfriend told her that he didnt like me anymore. I didnt know if this was true so I asked him about it and he told me that he never said that. Well I believed him.
But this week my friend keeps on saying that he doesnt think that my boyfriend cares about me. my friend told me that my b/f never talks about me when he's with his friends or anything. does that mean that he doesnt like me?? Plus my b/f never calls me. hes called me I think 2 times since we've been goin out and that is driving me crazy because I dont get to see him much.
Why do you think he never calls?? Please HELP me ASAP!
The most dangerous thing you can do in any relationship is to start caring about rumors people are spreading. Who cares what your friends thing? Surely he isn't revealing secrets to them that he is hiding from you. Also, lots of people hate phones. I know I do. A person's calling or not calling has nothing to do with them liking you or not liking you.
If you've talked to your boyfriend about this and he has reassured you, then trust him. If you're going to start being suspicious and accusing your boyfriend of lying to you, the relationship isn't going to last very long.
If you want to talk to him more on the phone, why not call him yourself?
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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He's probably shy