He Lied and Cheated - I Still Want Him
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Ok, here's my dilemma. There's this guy I really like. He took the time to get to know me despite the fact I had a boyfriend at the time... one thing led to another and i cheated on my boyfriend with him.
I broke up with my boyfriend only to find out that he has a girlfriend of 5 years! I would just end our "relationship" there, but our chemistry is unbelievable. He said so himself! We continue to be together behind his girlfriend's back... should i continue this in hope he will fall for me and break up with his girlfriend? i'm not sure how to approach him about the situation without sounding like a pathetic fool! any advice you give would help a lot!
He's already cheated on his girlfriend and proven to you that he's willing to do whatever he feels like. If he wanted to be with you, he would be. He's chosen to stay with his girlfriend and to use you on the side. Chemistry fades. Honesty is the thing that lasts in a relationship. If you don't have that even at the beginning, I would definitely look for another guy. I'd also think twice about cheating in the future, lest it come back to haunt me with someone I really cared about.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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