I Want More from my Male Friend
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have a friend who I have started to like in the past few months, but I don't really know what to think about the situation. We talk a couple of times a week and we hang out about every other week. The problem is that I just can't get myself to tell him I like him because I have a fear of rejection and I don't want to make things weird. I think he knows I like him because he asked a friend of mine if I did once, but that's it. He flirts with my friends often which hurts me so I'm trying to figure out what to do. Do you have any advice?
I have a TON of explicit advice on the site about how to go from friend to boyfriend-girlfriend. Read through those tips and follow them step by step. You should never just blurt out your feelings. Instead, show him through actions, in a slow, steady manner.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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