She Wants You to Walk Her Home
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Well ive known this one girl that i cant stop thinking about for about 3 months and a while ago, maybe a month ago, she was at one of her soccer games and she had to walk home. I only found this out once we had talked online after her game and she said that she looked all over for me to see if i could walk her home( i usually hang-out at the park in which she plays soccer). But after that i see her all the time walking home from the park all by herself and she sees me and we say bye and stuff and she never asks me to walk her home and i started to wonder if i was really there would she have really asked me to walk her home?
I really want to walk her home becuase thats the only moment shes not crowded around by her friends and we could be alone. by the way im very shy.i dont know what to do and i dont want to ask to cuz i might be imposing or she might think "what a weirdo" i dont even know if she "likes" me. What should i do?
Well, she's already said she wanted you to walk her home. So as far as she's concerned, she's asked you to do so and 'risked herself' by doing so. Girls are afraid of rejection, too, you know! So now she talks to you after the game and then you never go with her! So she's probably feeling badly, that here she ASKED you to walk her home, and she deliberately TALKS to you after the game and then you make her walk home all alone anyway!
She's not going to keep asking you every single time. The next time you're talking, tell her you were going to head in that direction anyway, and could you tag along with her. Don't make it this big "I Shall Walk You Home, Little One" sort of a thing :) Just say you're going that way, she is anyway, sound good? I bet you anything she'll say yes, and she'll be VERY happy that you finally started doing what she asked you to do in the beginning.
-- from Jenn
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