I'm In Love with my Friend
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Hey i have a friend and i have fallen in love with her. She used to be in a relationship with my best mate but he got abusive with her and she came to me for help. anyways i got her out of the relationship and now i have got feelings for her. she knows about them and stuff got bad between us, anyways i found out from a mate that she was acting funny cuz she felt the same way bout me then i screwed it up, anyways we are closer then ever and she just moved away on holiday for a couple weeks.
it has only been 2 days and she has called me twice and txt'd me heaps saying how much she misses me and has even asked if i could come to her but she is like 1000km away and i can't get time off work. i hang out with her about 4 nights a week after work and we cuddle while at mates places. now i want to ask her out but another one of my mates has asked her out several times and she has said no to him everytime as she is not interested in him. wat should i do
You're already friends with her. So do things with her as friends - take her to movies, go to dinner etc. If you do date-like things, and she doesn't complain, she will pretty clearly indicate to you that she likes or does not like these things. If she likes them and you keep doing them, then pretty quickly you are dating without any fuss.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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