It's Been a Week Online - I'm in love
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
i've known a girl online for about a week and i feel that i'm falling for her. i haven't seen her before but she the kind of feeling that i've never had before. but at 1st she didn't realise it until 1 day i told her about my feeling to her.
she felt abit shocked of what i've told her. she told me that we've just met for only a week and you haven't seen how i look like. she told me that she had never been into a relationship before and feel scared for the 1st time.
please teach me how to convince her and make her feel confident that this kind of relation will last.thanks in advance.
There's no way to convince anyone of that because it's not true. There's no way to know anything after a week of talking on the web. This is only the courtship period and mostly what you know is what your own fantasies are about the future. It takes several weeks to months to really get to know someone. You need to spend that time with her, really learning to know her. If you pressure her or obsess about her, you'll drive her away. You need to be patient.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com