She Got Pregnant and Ran Off

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
MY WIFE MARRIED ME BECAUSE SHE GOT PREGNANT ON A FRIDAY AT A COURTHOUSE [HER CHOICE] AND TOLD ME MONDAY IT WAS OVER AND WE HAVE A THREE MONTH
OLD GIRL. I'VE TRYED TO TALK HER ABOUT ANOTHER CHANCE BUT SHE SAID THINGS WENT TO FAST AND SHE DOES NOT WANT TO BE WITH ME.

I FEEL HELPLESS. I'M ALLOWED TO SEE MY BABY GIRL 2 DAYS A WEEK, LISTEN TO HER CUT ME DOWN.

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RomanceClass.com Advice
It really sounds like she used you to get a child and once she had the child, she didn't need you any more. It is probably best that you are not with her, that you can instead be with someone who truly loves you.

On the other hand, you have full rights to see your own child and for that visit to be without any negative commentary. Most custody agreements explicitly say that the partners can NOT make negative comments about each other in the presence of the child. It's time for you to chat with a lawyer and get her under control.

-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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