He Was Fine - Now We Fight Constantly
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
i am a pregnant 20 yr. old dating a 44 yr. old everything was great in the begining but now that im pregnant, everything has been going wrong. i really want things to work but im not sure if it is worth it.
lately we fight all the time. not a day goes by that we dont. he also tells me that if i want things to work there is no such thing as 50/50 everything goes his way or else im out. he was never like this please help me i cant get upset anymore i have to stay healthy for the baby
There is as you know a huge age difference between 20 and 44. I really imagine that all he wanted out of this relationship was a fun roll in the hay with a young woman's body, and once you actually got pregnant it involved another level of commitment he had no interest in. Like you said, he wants to keep you like a pet, to be at his beck and call.
I honestly suggest you break it off with him and talk to your friends and family to set up a support net. If he's like this even before the baby is born and you guys consider marriage, he is only going to get worse. You're way too young to turn into someone's slave.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com