I Grew Apart from a Great Guy Friend
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Okay, here it is. I like this guy, but we like never talk. We used to be really close, practicly best friends, when we were younger. Since then, we have grown apart and now, never ever talk.
I don't want to be the first to talk to him, because i am really shy and would never be able to keep a conversation up with him. I need your help to get him to notice me, and so that we can become friends again. HELP!!
You can't make plots so that someone else does all the work. That isn't fair at all. If you want to talk to this guy, then talk to him. You don't start with long conversations! It's silly to even think that way. You start with short "Hi" and "Hello" messages. It's called breaking the ice. I have an entire set of tips about it. Just focus on the short term goal. Your short term goal is to break the ice. Read all the tips, work on it every day, and practice.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com