I Cheated - Then She Cheated

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I cheated on my current gf about 2 weeks into the relationship with my ex of 11 months. I love my current gf very much and i regret ever doing anything with my ex. I couldn't decide if i should tell her or not. I decided after v'day i would so not to upset her when she should b happy. (I made sure she didn't give me a gift). she called me the next day saying she cheated on me with her friend. i'm not sure wut i'm suppose to do.

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It was of course bad for you to cheat - but it was even more immature for her to cheat to "get back at you". It really sounds like you guys have to sit down and have a long talk - maybe with a third party present, like a minister or therapist or someone - to get a handle on this. A relationship should be about working together not on issues, not on trying to inflict pain on each other.

-- from Lisa
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