I Cheated - Then She Cheated
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I cheated on my current gf about 2 weeks into the relationship with my ex of 11 months. I love my current gf very much and i regret ever doing anything with my ex. I couldn't decide if i should tell her or not. I decided after v'day i would so not to upset her when she should b happy. (I made sure she didn't give me a gift). she called me the next day saying she cheated on me with her friend. i'm not sure wut i'm suppose to do.
It was of course bad for you to cheat - but it was even more immature for her to cheat to "get back at you". It really sounds like you guys have to sit down and have a long talk - maybe with a third party present, like a minister or therapist or someone - to get a handle on this. A relationship should be about working together not on issues, not on trying to inflict pain on each other.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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