We Hardly Date - Should We Have Sex?

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Me and my girlfriend are 14. She claims she is not a virgin and i think she is getting annoyed that i am not doing something with her. We have both french kissed, hugged and been more or less affectionate with each other. I have no problem having intercourse with her, but under the circumstances that i am still a virgin and she is not i think she would say or do something if i did it wrong. Also her parents don't trust her and we would never get the chance to do it.

Also we have been out 2 times and we hung out a took a walk together 3 times. All we went is to the movies and she refuses to eat around me. I am mostly the same. I don't know what do?
Please help!?

RomanceClass.com Advice
It really sounds like you should wait!! Many people date regularly for 6 months to a year before jumping into bed! There's no rush at all. If you race into sex, you miss out on the trillions of other things you can do together now, that won't seem "special" if you just do sex. Plus, are you guys really ready to raise a kid? No form of birth control is 100% accurate.

-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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