I Want her Back
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Im 14 years old and only in the ninth grade. I am deeply in love with my ex girlfriend and she says she feels the same about me. We were together for about 5 months and we split about 3 times never for long periods and 2 of them were over stupid immature things on my part. BUT after the third time i tried to get her back and she said no not right now. then a week later she had a new boyfriend. Now we just talk only as friends I get as much attention as alll the other boys at school. I really want her to take me back What should I say or do in this situation?
It really sounds like you guys gave it a fair chance and that she has chosen to move on. I know it's always hard and that you fantasize about your exs, but you have to realize that love needs 2 people. It can't be a one sided obsession. You can stay as her friend, and be around in case she changes her mind, but it's really not healthy for you to be waiting around for years and years just in case she gets free again.
I would be her friend - but keep your eyes open for other girls to date. Somewhere out there is a girl that really wants to be with you.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com