Chasing the Hot Girl

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
There's this really hot girl at my school and I've known her for about 3 years now and when I first met her I was nervous about now I talk to her when I can and make her laugh, I'm trying to ask her out and some girls think I should but I'm way to shy and I think I'm going to get rejected, she's always smiling at me. I'm like this with all the girls. Just the other day I saw her in the store and she smiled. I need your help and advice please!!!!!!!!
Thank you for your time. I appreciate it. Advice
Instead of diving into asking her out, get closer to her first. Right now you talk and laugh. OK that's a good start. Now start to have longer talks with her. Find out her interests. When you see something come up in the movie listing, see if she wants to go as a friend. That way you can build the connection further without any stressful questions yet.

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