He Flirts with Other Girls
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 4 months.And we've broken up a couple times in between then.But we'd always go back out.But I don't know if it was a good thing.Then the most recent break up (2nd one) I told myself I wasn't gonna go back out with him but I did.Cuz I love him.And he means so much to me.But now I dunno what to do, I now think it was maybe a mistake to go back out with him.Beacause some of the time he'll flirt with other girls and act if I'm not even there.I dunno what to do about it.He knows it bothers me.But he still does it.I mean I don't mind the whole flirting thing as much,cuz everyone flirts its just that he ignores me.I'm close to breaking up with him..but I don't want to, cuz I love him so much.Is there anything I can do for him to maybe get the idea that I hate it when he flirts with other girls and me getting ignored and not break up?PLEASE HELP ME!PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME!!
Instead of yelling at us, why not try talking with your boyfriend? Having a boyfriend is about having someone you can talk honestly with and share your most important feelings and secrets with.
If you are feeling ignored, then sit down and discuss this with him. You also need to get a handle on your jealousy. It's normal for boys to talk with girls and visa versa. You can't get upset every time he talks with a girl - you won't last long if you do that.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com