i really like this girl
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I DUNNO, I THINK I AM UGLY, PEOPLE HAVE RUINED MY CONFEDANCE IN SAYING SO MANY TIMES I AM UGLY AND IT HEARTS SO MUCH AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO, ITS ALSO SHYNESS ASWELL, I FEEL SHY A LOT TO ASK GIRL OUT I LIKE, LOL, BUT WHAT REALLY HEARTS AT COLLEGE WHEN MY MATES TEASE ME ABOUT MY LOOKS, I LAUGH WITH THEM AND SAY THAT IS FUNNY, BUT I DONT SHOW MY REAL SLEF AT ALL, I FEEL UP SET AND FULL OF CRAP, I LIKE LOADS OF GIRLS, MY MATES ALWAYS SAY THE GIRLS I LIKE ARE HOARS AND SLAGS AND STUFF, THEN THEY SAY I HAVE BAD TASTE, I MEAN I AM HAPPY IN WHAT TASTE I LIKE, BUT THEN MY LOOKS IS THE MAIN AND PROBLEM AND ALSO ME BEING SHY, I JUST WANT FUN, I DONT MEAN GOING TO BED WITH SOMEONE, BUT JUST HAVING SOMEONE THERE TO TAKE OUT AND HAVE A GOOD LAUGH WITH.
I also have a problem with my dress sense, i always where NIKE and ADDIDADS cloaths, my girl mate said, that girls dont like that and i act like a 12 year old rather then a 17 year old, i like joking a lot and smiling and laughing like mad,i aint really serious but people say i joke a lot at college and i should be serios, i really like this girl, i mean i am being honest i emailed 2 months ago, but i didnt take the advice which you gave me, i am really sick of my color, i want to be white, shell i get plastic sugory,lol, lol, i was thinking of that actually for 2 years, everyone says to me theres nothing wrong with being ASIAN, well the biggest problem is going up to someone i like, there are loads of girls at college, i mean there so pretty, when people say to me i have to where different cloaths to impress girl, is that true, and i have to get a good hair cut is that true aswell, i aint saying i go college scrffy, i dress the best as i can. All the girls who i like are like looking like models, and they all do different subjects , i mean its like the hardest thing on earth, i just want someone like a best friend to be best friends thats all. I mean cant there me a different way to going up to someone i like.I like one or two i like, but then cant they come up to me,somehow.lol
sorry to bother you again.
Here's a great article to read about how to ask a girl out. Yes, it's tough to do, but the more you do, the more likely it is you'll find that special someone. You will face a lot of rejection, but a baby doesn't learn to walk from the first step, they fall down a lot. Just take it in stride.
-- from Jenn
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