She Cheated and Said it was an Accident

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
She was honest with me and was very sorry after she had sex with a guy. She call it as an accident, but I can hardly take it. she does not seem to have physical problems. Please tell me how do i make myself believe her. I don't want to be cheated on!! Advice
There are some things you do by accident, like drop a cup of hot tea because it burnt your hands. You trip over a rug by accident because you don't see it. There is no way in the world that you can go from fully clothed to fully naked and involved in sex by accident. There are a LOT of steps involved there.

If she can't take responsibility for what she did, then that isn't a great sign. What happens when she runs into another guy? Is she going to accidentially take off all her clothes again and accidentially climb into bed with him? Maybe she just isn't ready for a monogamous relationship, if she didn't have the willpower at any step along the way to say "we should stop".

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