She Cheated and Said it was an Accident

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
She was honest with me and was very sorry after she had sex with a guy. She call it as an accident, but I can hardly take it. she does not seem to have physical problems. Please tell me how do i make myself believe her. I don't want to be cheated on!!

RomanceClass.com Advice
There are some things you do by accident, like drop a cup of hot tea because it burnt your hands. You trip over a rug by accident because you don't see it. There is no way in the world that you can go from fully clothed to fully naked and involved in sex by accident. There are a LOT of steps involved there.

If she can't take responsibility for what she did, then that isn't a great sign. What happens when she runs into another guy? Is she going to accidentially take off all her clothes again and accidentially climb into bed with him? Maybe she just isn't ready for a monogamous relationship, if she didn't have the willpower at any step along the way to say "we should stop".

-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question! All Advice in the category - My Partner is Cheating Browse our Answer Database - Browse Answers by Question Category - Browse Answers by Age Group - Browse Answers by Date of Response Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.

Advertisement

Sparkly Irridescent Glitz Gel Going to a party or special event? What to feel special no matter what you're doing? Roll on some glitz! Perfect for adding a special bit of sparkle to your day or evening. Buy Glitz Gel at EclecticLady.com