I Cheated, I Want to be Romantic
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have never been much of a romantic. I cheated on my husband, he found out. That is not the problem. I want to be romantic without having to buy things. I never found that to be romantic. I am basically looking for suggestions for someone who intersts includes classic cars, nascar, and fishing. He does not enjoy massages.
I have to say that actually cheating IS a huge problem in being romantic. It is incredibly hard to be romantic with someone that you do not fully trust. Your husband is going to have huge issues in this area and it's not the romance activities that will help it - it is the trust activities. Everything is interrelated in the human brain. If you feel suspicious about someone, it's very very hard to be romantic about them. So I would really work very hard at rebuilding the trust, because that needs to be in place before anything else will work.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com