In Love at 15
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Hello. I am deeply in love at the tender age of 15. My questions are:
1) We live far apart. What can I do to make sure she doesnt slip away?
2) What can I do to knock her off of her feet (not literally) over the phone?
3) What can I get her for Christmas?
4) HOW DO I KNOW SHE LOVES ME?
First, enjoy being in love :) I was in love at age 15, and in fact my boyfriend lived an hour away so most of the time we just talked on the phone. Long distance relationships take effort, but they can certainly work. I have an entire set of pages on long distance romance -
Long distance romance isn't about knocking someone off her feet :) It's about being there, talking for hours, listening to troubles. It's a firm, steady, trusting situation. It's the enduring kind of love.
I'm not Miss Cleo :) I don't know what she wants for Christmas! Only SHE knows that. What if I said to get her a horse figurine, and she hated horses? Hopefully through your conversations you've learned what she loves :) Get her something she loves :)
I have a whole set of pages on 'is it love' :)
Good luck :)
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com