She Flirts All The Time - Does She Like Me?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I met this girl at university about 4 or 5 months ago, we have become very good friends and as you probably guessed i like her! We have a very flirty/sarcastic relationship, we joke about liking eachother but she often seems to end it with "i don't really like you in that way, i don't". I'm wondering if she really means it or might she actually have feelings for me? We sit in lectures and recently she keeps resting her head on my shoulder which as you can imagine is a tease but is this just a comfortable friend situation or does it possibly mean more? Am i holding on to a false hope?
Lots of girls flirt, lots of guys flirt. So flirt back, flirt more heavily. Ask her to a movie as a friend. The only way to see how she responds is to do these things slowly, and see if she goes along with them willingly or if she starts to balk at some point. If she does balk, no harm, you can just say you were teasing. If she enjoys these things with you, then you're all set.
-- from Lisa
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