She's a Minor

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
well, lets just say im 18 and she wil be 15 in may, so im paranoid about the whole age thing. i know how the court system works and i really don't want to stay a night at the grey bar hotel if you know what i mean.

Do you think age matters? should i risk it? Advice
If you mean should you push a girl that is 14 into sex, the answer is NO. You are clearly an adult and she is clearly NOT an adult. Undoubtedly someone is going to find out if you two do something, no matter how much either of you claims you will keep it a secret.

If you really love her, why wouldn't you wait a few years before risking getting her pregnant? Any sexual encounter is ALWAYS risking pregnancy no matter what precautions you take. Life is measured in DECADES. If the only thing you can think of is getting into her pants before she's even finished growing into a teenage woman, it's time to rethink your priorities.

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