Giving a Hickey
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I dated a girl for 3 months already and we started kissing already. The main points is why does she always ask me to kiss her on the neck? She doesn't tell me why, so i wish to seek your advice. May i know when is the best time to give her hickeys? Please don't say during sex cause we aren't ready to be parents.
It's very good that you are being cautious about sex - no matter HOW careful you are, you can always get pregnant! So it's best not to even start down that road until you are ready for the consequences.
As far as hickeys go, they don't have anything to do with sex! People give hickeys all the time - just during casual dating.
The throat is a very tender area. Letting someone touch or kiss your throat is an ultimate form of submission. Your throat is your most vulnerable area. So it's a sure way to say "I trust you".
I have lots of information about hickeys here -
but if she trusts you that much and enjoys it, have fun!
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com