Handling a Cheating Partner
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
help me please i don't know what to do anymore . about 1 year ago i found out that the man i loved i thought i had found would have never cheated on me after every single relationship i have had my love has ended in them cheating on me and i couldn't stay even in some of them i had begged to stay and try again but i thought this would never happen this time and it has been with his best friend and this person even though we don't see her she is at his mothers most every day and his mother said it doesn't count because we are not married and now i am pregnant i can't stop thinking all the time, has he talked to her? is he still cheating ?
i have bad dreams now and they won't stop i wake and can't breath because in my dreams it happens over and over again and i want to leave but i love him so so much .i don't want to live my life this way but he was suppose to be the man that would stay with me till the day i die.
and now this past christmas i thought it was all over and then she had convinced his mother to sneak a x-mas present to him and say it was from her dog so i wouldn't find out but i did find out 4 days before x-mas i had asked him if she were to get him one would he accept it he told me no i won't then it came down to the night before and he was going to his mothers and i was staying home and i told him that if he took it i wouldn't be here
he tried after telling me he wouldn't that if she is stupid enough to get him something then why couldn't take it i told him thats not right that she would think that he was still wanting her if he took it then his mother tried to lie and say there never was a presant after he had allready told me he told his mother to take it back to her ....
what am i too do know i thought we had gotten over this and now all this comes up and i am lost please tell me thanks
His mother is definitely being slimy here. What, people can sleep around all they want as long as they aren't married? That's hardly a healthy view of the world. Cheating is cheating. Especially since you are pregnant, she should be supporting you, not conspiring against you.
I think you guys should draw a bit away from her if she is actively working to harm your relationship. She should support her son in his choice, not work to her own selfish desires.
-- from Lisa
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