Is My Race Why She's Not Dating Me?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Do you think the September 11th attack will halt any other race going out with Muslims. I am a 17 year old muslim, I am agaist terrorism and bad stuff as well, but do you think people would think differently of muslims because what is going on at the moment?
I like other girls apart from my own race, do you think a girl could reject me if i was muslim? Please, I need to know. I am madly in love with one, its kind of hard living with this type of worry. I don't know her at all, but i see her sometimes at college. I am not political or anything and I shouldn't bring politics into love.
I really don't think many people blame all Muslims for the Sept 11th attacks. What seems more interesting here is that you say you are madly in love with her, but you don't even know her at all. Love is about KNOWING someone inside and out, good sides and bad, up sides and down, and fully accepting all of those things about her. If you don't know about her at all, how can you love her? You can lust after her. You can have a crush about her. But until you really know her fully, love isn't really the emotion you are feeling.
So get to know her. Get to be friends with her. Learn about her. That is what love is about - getting to know someone. I have tips here -
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com