He's Over 40 - He Has Trouble Getting an Erection
Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
I am living with a man who is divorced and was married for 23 years. He still has feeling for his ex, and has a problem getting an erection. Is it normal? Or can he be thinking of her while this is happening. Or can there be another reason.
Heck even if this guy married his first wife at 18, he's still 41 years old now. Guys lose their potency as they age! Why do you think there are so many millions of ads for viagra on TV? If he's on any other medication right now many of them cause a loss in libido. So if he's on any heart medication or cholesterol medication or such that could easily be having an effect.
The only person who will know for sure is his doctor. Have him talk to his doctor and find out! If it's affecting your happiness and intimacy, it's well worth a discussion with the medical person who can help.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com