Asking Out a Girl I Don't Talk To
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
i really like this girl in my school but i'm not sure she likes or even notices me. i'm pretty shy and she is also when she isn't with her friends. i get mixed messages all the time, like she sometimes glances at me when i'm next to her or nearby. she is usually with a group of friends because she is so popular. Plus i don't even know if she is going out with anyone but i know some of my friends like her too. i feel to shy to talk to her and think i'm going to get rejected if i ask her out.
i'm in a total disaster what should i do? thanx for your time.
Now wait, you don't even talk with her at all and you want to ask her out?? Dating a girl is about spending time with a good friend. You have to build that friendship up first. And that means you have to TALK with her, flirt with her, all the rest.
I have a lot of advice on flirting here -
so take this step by step. You should be a good friend with a girl before dating her, that is the foundation that helps the relationship work well.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com