He Flirts a Lot - Does He Like Me?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
There is this guy that I like. He know that I like him because I told him. He told my friend (that also likes him) that he only likes me as a friend. But when we are together hes always touching me and hitting my bottom and also kinda grabbing my hands. Oh and hes always around me.
When ppl tell him things about me he doesnt tease me but when he finds out things about other ppl he teases them.
The friend that likes him too always flirts with him when we are messing around. She told him all this stuff about me and also told me that he touches her too. I asked him and his mates and they say no. I told him, as a joke, that Im going to go over to his house. He said swt as and gave me his addy. Also he sent me this email that said "hey lover" i dunno whether hes just a flirt or or he likes me.
can you help me?
People flirt with people they like! So he does like you. My main suggestion here is to NOT go asking other people how he feels or getting third parties to carry your emotions. That is the surest way to get everything confused. Would you really reveal your deepest emotions to some strange middle-guy and hope it was told correctly to the guy you liked? Would you really want him revealing his emotions about you to some random other person? :)
The best relationships are formed between best friends who then slowly become more than friends. He already likes you. So build on that relationship you have. Flirt more often. Do more touchy-kinds of flirting like back massages and shoulder massages. Give him hugs hello and goodbye. The things normal flirts do but that also build some contact into your lives. Share your thoughts with him, tell him about your family, your pets, your favorite shows and songs. The closer you get, the better your relationship gets!
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com