He Used Me, I Still Love Him
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I was with a man who supposedly "loved" me and I loved him also. The problem was a 20 year difference in our age. My parents broke us up and he never said goodbye or wrote me or anything. I've been told he used me and all sorts of things.
I don't know what to do. It's been over a half of a year since I have seen him or spoke to him. I still love him but he's getting married. I am so confused! If anyone can help send your answer A.S.A.P.!!!
On one hand, it is certainly possible to have love even with a 20 year difference. But if he HAD loved you, then certainly he would have called or at least written letters to make sure you were OK, to say goodbye, to keep in touch. Instead, once the 'forbidden fruit' was removed from his grasp, he ran off to find someone new.
I know it's really hard to get over someone you loved. It can easily take months and months. But ALL of us go through a breakup and it is one of those lessons in life, to learn how to move on. Pretty much every woman on the planet has had to do this. Now it's your turn.
I have a lot of advice here -
Read it and really make this a priority in your life. Not only did he hurt you by leaving you like that, but he also is continually harming you now even though he's not around! You cannot let him keep harming you.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com