The First Time

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
my boyfriend ask me to have sex with him... how will i initiate the kissing? what are the preparations needed before having sex with him?..pls help me. Advice
I would really, really advise against leaping into things like this. If you aren't even sure about the kissing part, you should NOT be going into full blown sex. Every sexual act has a risk of pregnancy associated with it. Even with protection, 1 out of ever 100 times results in the sperm getting into the girl. Are you guys really ready to raise a child together, if you're not sure how to kiss together?

There are many, many stages in intimacy before you get around to full sex. You start with caressing and hugging. Then you move into kissing. And then you move into kissing all over the body. And then you move into TOUCHING each others private parts. All of this comes LONG before you get around to sex. Are you sure you've gone through all those other stages and are fully comfortable and relaxed and sure of each other in those areas? You definitely should be before you go any further ...

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