I Wrote Him a Love Letter
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I have known this really nice guy at my church for a while but we don't talk much because we are both really shy. I actually got up the nerve to write him a letter stating how I feel because I get the feeling he likes me too. I gave him that letter a day ago with my email address on it but recieved no reply?
Im panicking!! What do you think???
A relationship is really about communication, I think instead of writing a letter I would have built up a friendship with him. You don't want him to be hit with a letter going "Hi I don't know you but I like you" :) Instead you want him to LIKE you - which only comes after a friendship develops.
Maybe he doesn't have email. Maybe he's unsure how to react! Instead of sending letters, talk to the guy. That is what every relationship depends on, communication and trust. You need to start with that. Start just talking to him, building up the friendship. That is what is the base of anything else to follow.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com