She Said She was Staying Home - She Went Out with the Girls

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
On new years eve my girlfriend said she was feeling bad and so she was just gonna stay home and I should just call her later that night. But it turns out that she went and stayed the night at her friends house with a bunch of girls. How should I handle the situation?? Advice
Well first, it's not like she went over some guy's house and spent the night with him. She was just with some girlfriends having fun. That being said, she told you to reach her at her house. Then she left there without even telling you. That's not being much of a girlfriend. Even if she just wanted to have a "night with the girls" (which is something pretty much any female will want occasionally) she should have told you. What if you'd called and then worried she'd passed out or something?

If she feels like this would be "checking in with her daddy" then it's time for her to get a new outlook on the relationship. A relationship should be about two people who WANT to share their lives together. If she feels like it's a CHORE to stay in touch with you, just where are her priorities and concerns?

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