We Broke Up - I Want Her Back
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Me and girlfriend broke up almost two weeks now and we are still talking. I want to get back together. She sent me a e-mail saying that she misses me and she is sorry for every thing. She said she wants to be friends to see me everyday. She wants to be really great friends but then she would cry cause that's all we would be.
I really miss her that much that I am going crazy and really want to be back together. I don't know whether to give her space to think about us and grow more apart or to get out there with my feelings and tell her that really miss her want to get back together. I don't want to lose her. I love her very much and I just don't know what to do anymore. Please help me. I'm crazy about her. HELP!!
You never say WHY you guys broke up. People don't break up spontaneously for no reason at all. They break up because something is seriously wrong that you never were able to talk about together and find a resolution to. So that indicates a very serious failure of your talking and sharing and helping each other out.
If you want to get back together with her, sit down and have a long serious talk IN PERSON. The only way you can maintain a relationship is if you are capable of dealing with these things face to face. Talk about what went wrong, what the issues were. Talk about ways that you two TOGETHER can face those issues and find solutions. This is the talk you should have had *before* the breakup happened. Hopefully if you have it now and show her you're capable of handling this, she will give it another try.
-- from Jenn
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