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i hav been friends with this girl for a while and i began developing feelings for her. we alredy go to movies and do stuff together i eventually told her how i felt and she sed she could tell i liked her. she turned me down because she sed she'd had some bad relationships in the past and didnt want to ruin our friendship.
i never had any bad intentions and i have told her these things but she says we should just remain friends. i dont want to accept this because i really care about her and i cant just forget the way i feel and carry on as if everythings normal. can i do anything to improve the situation. any help will be appreciated. Advice

Unfortunately, you can't make someone feel something that they don't.

You have two choices, remain her friend and hope that something will eventually happen or tell her that it hurts too much to be her friend and not spend time with her. This can result in two possiblilites. You will either lose or a friend or she may miss you so much that she contacts you and decides she wants to take it slow so that she can learn to trust you.

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