A Tear In My Beer
Visitor's Question from a unknown year old Person
Hi! I am a single mother of 1. I use to go to the bar by my home all the time before I had my daughter and I noticed this guy. I have known him for about 2yrs but didn't really pay much attention to him. He would buy me a drink here and there and give me a hug when he saw me. Well one night I was standing next to him and we were talking and this girl came over and sat down next to him and she was trying to filrt with him and he looked at me and I said well we can act like we were together. In that time we kissed and touched each other and the other girl said she was sorry she didn't know that we were together. I also go to this other bar where my frinds do Karoke and I asked this guy S*** if we wanted to go there he said that he was waiting for a phone call and then he would meet me there. So I left and went to the other bar. After I was there for and hour or so I called him and he said that he was on his way. So he showed up and he sang a few songs and danced then we parted. Monday was my girlfriends birthday and we met at the bar where I had met S****. I turned around and S**** just walked into the bar and gave me a hug and bought me a beer. I stayed there for about an hour and asked S*** if he wanted to go and sing and he said that he had to go to his parents house. So I left it at that. So I met up with my girlfriend and her husband at the other bar. I was sitting there and I looked over and S**** showed up he said that he could stay for a few songs and then he would go to his parents, he said that he forgot that this bar was on the way to his parents so he thought he would stop. After about and hour he left and my friends and I went to breakfest and then I went home and I couldn't settle my self down so I called S****. S**** said it was good timming because he was just leaving his parents house.I asked if he wanted to come over. S*** said yes that he would call as he gets closer to the house.Well he called back and asked if I need anything before he got there, so I said a pack of cigs. So he came over and we shared a beer together and talk a little bit then he came and sat on the chair where I was sitting and I sat on his lap. Well we started kissing and ended up having sex.,We talked for a little bit and he said that we sould do this when we haven't been drinking so much and that he would like to comeover when we could loung around all day and go for breakfest.Well by that time it was 2am and he had to get home and get some sleep and get up for work. Before he left he told me to call him later that day anytime. So I did about 11am and he was busy he couldn't talk so I told hime to call me when he had a min. Well I didn't hear from him,so I called him about 7pm and his cell phone came up to voicemail. So I left him a message to give me a call. Well I haven't heard from him and it makes me wonder if I was just there for him to have sex with or is he really interested in me? Can you shed some light on this for me please?
Not sure what to think.
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It seems like this man is attracted to you. He initially showed up when you didnt' expect him to and when he came over he asked if you needed anything. It also seems that he may have issues with making a time commitment or taking control (his asking you to call). I would wait a day or so and try him again. If he is interested, follow his suggestion and see each other sober and then see how you really feel about one another.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com