He Quit our Friendship
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I've been friends with this guy for nearly three years and just recently he came to me and said he thought it would be better for the two of us not to talk anymore. Being civil about it i retreated and only confronted him though email. Well the history between us tells alot more. He has liked me since we first met each other but ive only seen a friend in him. And i cant explain why. He doesnt feel like im a close enough friend. As though im not there for him enough. I hate him thinking that and although i have my reasons, none would make any sense to him. Is there any way i can understand this decsion? Will he ever talk to me again?
It's really really odd to tell someone that you can't talk to them any more. Is it because he likes you too much and it's hard to be around you with that angst in his heart? If so then give him some time to get over you, and then go from there.
-- from Lisa
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