He Cheated, I Want Him Back
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I'm going through a major depression just doting on a single memory of my ex, the love of my life (so far)...When we first started seeing each other, it was love at first sight for him, for me it was more of an attraction. As time went on, it changed...we loved each other like there was no tomorrow, spending every waking moment together.We broke up around 4 times in 2 weeks, each time getting back together. One night after getting back together, he went to a party and refused to let me come, because "I had to study" (since I still go to school) I knew he was cheating on me, and like I suspected he was. He claims to not feel a single fiber of love for me in him, but I on the other hand, am still madly crazily IN LOVE with him, I can't sleeep eat or function because I miss him so much, so please, is there ANY way for me to get him back or at least get over him?
If you guys broke up 4 times in 2 weeks it really sounds like there were a ton of problems there. I would give yourself a long break here, and concentrate on getting a stable base for yourself. Spend time with friends and family, enjoy your hobbies and get into a happy routine. Then see if you really want to include him in it - and if you'll be able to dedicate yourself to making the relationship work. You don't want to have that super-high breakup rate continue regardless of who you date next!
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com