Dating with an Audience
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
ok see theres this guy in my neighborhood. and there are all guys in my hood so i hang out with them all the time and we are all friends. but i want this guy from the group to be more than friends with me but hes 4 years older than me. we like each other alot and everyone knows. he said that im hot and the other hoodie guys tell what he says and viceversa.
so i want to be more than friends with him. i want to ask him out but im afraid it will be on this big screen and the whole hood would watch us go out. what do i do? ask him out?
It's critical that you two build up your friendship to be very strong if everyone else is going to be poking their noses into what you two do. I have lots of tips here on building a friendship into more here -
don't just leap into asking someone out. Build up the relationship and do things together. That way it just works out slowly and easily, without any stress.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com