Is He Cheating?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
How can one tell if your partner is cheating? I have asked the question and he keeps saying no i am not. There are many rumours and I just dont know?
There is NEVER any way to prove someone is cheating unless you actually catch them with someone. And there is NEVER any way to prove innocence unless you put a camera on their body and track their every moment. A relationship is about trust and honesty. Either you trust each other or you don't have a relationship. So you have to decide if you trust him or you trust the rumors. Lots of relationships have been destroyed by rumors which were untrue.
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If you really feel insecure, then work through this with him. Have him carry a cell phone and you can call at any time, ask where he is. He can call you regularly too. But you have to agree that after a certain amount of time you will trust him. Because if you're going to doubt him for the rest of his life, that's not a relationship.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com