I have a Bad Rep but Want to Change
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I like this guy a lot and i think he likes me but is afraid to be with me cause i am not good with staying with one person. i know we would be really great together.
how can i show him how much i really care. i have tried telling him and i dont want to just let him go.
The most important thing in any relationship is trust. Trust doesn't just appear. Trust is built up over time through actions and deeds. You can't just TELL him that you should be trusted and then expect him to believe you. If he did, what would that really say about the quality of his trust? You need to SHOW him that you can be trusted and earn it.
So instead of trying to dive into a relationship without deserving it, work hard to show him just what sort of a person you can be. Build up a best friendship with him. Talk to him a lot, share your feelings, listen to his. Be there for him. Do things he loves. Share your own world with him and teach him about the things YOU love. As you become best friends, your worlds will grow together naturally and he will see, first hand, that you CAN be trusted and that he does want to be with you.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com