Help, I don't have a girlfriend!

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
im afraid of never having a girlfriend. im in highschool and u may be thinking "ur still very young". however, many people i know have done it all and i havent even really been hugged or kissed before. i think it might be too late, because if i actually get a girlfriend, what will i do? ill be totally clueless about kissing and etc. do u have any advice? Advice
I know it's very, very hard to be the 'never dated' one in high school when others have dates. But really, people end up in relationships at different times in their lives. Some are dating at 13, some at 17. It always seems to work out one way or another, and usually it works best if you're not stressed about it. Relationships don't leap into fooling around, so don't worry about that either. When you start dating a girl, you'll start by hugging her, then quick soft kisses, and move from there. So you'll have plenty of time to practice before you get into anything more serious.

The best way to meet girls is to be where they are and to be friends with them. So concentrate on making girl friends - even if you don't date one of them, they'll then introduce you to girls you can date. The friendship is the KEY beginning part. So join clubs, or co-ed sports, or do other things that let you interact with girls. Work on getting one or two female friends. It's a very important first step.

-- from Jenn
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