Is He a Player?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
hi. i recently met this guy from arizona he was out here in canada doing work, and we got really close and i thought we could work things out so we could be together. he said that he wanted to stay and be with me and he spent most of his time with me while he was here. then he had to go home for his break. he should be back today.
while he was at home though he didn't call me or anything. do you think he was for real or just a player? i'm 23 and he is 25. why would someone spend all their time with you and tell you they really like you and want to be with you and then he doesn't even call or anything.
i guess i'm wondering if you think that i've been played or he does really like me like he said and it hurts him to be away from me so he doesn't call? feeling a little discouraged...
If he enjoyed his time with you, I would value that ... but if he suddenly vanishes completely when he's back home, it sounds like he has someone he cares for there too. He may be having trouble deciding between you two. if he really was 100% for you alone I would have to imagine he'd call at least ONCE while he was down there because he missed you.
Talk to him and get him to honestly explain how he feels and why he didn't call. It's not that you are demanding he call - but that behavior is pretty unusual for someone who says he wants to stay with you.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com